I'm feeling defeated again... i realize it's only been two months, but i should be healing by now, and i just feel kicked in the face. Every day is spent just surviving, getting through the day until it's time to sleep again. I look very much forward to sleeping because i don't think about it when im asleep. I never stop thinking about it. Ever. Unless i'm asleep.
I'm just very good at faking happy, and surviving i guess.
I honestly wish i didn't wallow in self pity every fucking day. Seriously. I'm just so tired of feeling alone, and miserable, and unwanted, and fat, and like a failure. I know i'm just wallowing, and some of that isn't true, deep down, but when i get in this mood, it's hard to see anything but negative.
I desperately need a new job, and i AM looking. Every single day i look. Problem is, i have to make more money or the same at least, to stay afloat. I'm able to pay my bills right now, and have enough money left over for gas n stuff, but i wanna be really comfortable. I'm on my own, and have only my debt, so i should have extra money for fun. Anyone know anyone who's hiring? haha....let me know eh?
I wish i had motivation to do something useful. My office is still not unpacked, and i've lived here for two months. My painting stuff is also not unpacked. I haven't even touched a paintbrush. Nor my guitars, nor my favorite books, drawing, writing, photography, even Minecraft.... nothing. I think about doing things, and then bail. I just want to sleep constantly. Zero motivation. And then i sleep instead, or sit around, and then feel like shit because i wanted to paint, play guitar, take pictures, write, draw, whatever..... and didn't. And so goes the cycle.
I need to move my red table into my office. I think that's a good starting point. If i don't have my table, then i have nothing to work on. Maybe that's where i need to begin. I need help with it though, and i live far from my friends and family, so i do everything alone. Jane doesn't help cuz she has her own life, and i don't expect her to drop everything for me, so solo it is.
Maybe that's step one? The red table.... move the fucking thing already. And mark it as an accomplishment. Once the table is in here, i can put a box on it, and open said box, and dig out my things that i need to find me again.
I've honestly never felt so fucking empty. I literally live on auto pilot. Words come out, and i make facial expressions, and even laugh for other's benefit, but i'm numb. I just have nothing, no spark, no excitement, and i simply want to sleep. I fill my day with text messages from men i don't give a shit about, and stay busy being a fucking bitch to my poor team at work, who have done nothing to deserve it. I come home, and wander around the apartment, looking at the walls, and staring at myself in the mirror, hating how things are, and then i go to bed...sleep for a bit, wake up, and around and around we go.
I miss the spirit i had for my life. I honestly miss the happy soul i had when i first met John. Life was good, and i was loved. And it was fine. Before all the bad stuff. I just miss that happiness and contentment before my Karmic bank called to cash in on the enormous debt i must owe. Fuck karma, fuck the universe, and fuck my life.
Anyway, whatever... bad day today. Guess who's taking an ativan. Tomorrow might be better. I do have some decent days.... never real ones, but decent nonetheless.
Night.
